Where does confidence come from? Is it something you are just born with or can we build confidence over a period of time? Yes, some individuals just have it. But as someone that had it, lost it fully, and had to build it all back from scratch, I'm going to point out you can do some pretty fascinating things with building some iron confidence in your life.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or maybe you just desire some more because you know precisely how much it would aid you with making decisions. But really, where does this true confidence come from? There are these little things I love to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long-lasting confidence comes from the process of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that almost all people regularly overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and actually knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You actually begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these good habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of true magic. You see, when you really nail the little stuff, the larger things become more practicable. It's when we try to go for the gigantic goal without having the integrity of focusing on the small things that actually set us up for great failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take the time to deeply focus on the feasible measure of your life, and over longer bouts of time start going for bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a gentle step back down and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path to success. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals get discouraged when they try something big in life and fail. In fact , most people will try something 3 times and then give up completely. But if you build some significant momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and over until the day you get it 100% right.
Isn't that a far better way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are incredibly capable of amazing things.
But first, you need to sweat the really small stuff.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or maybe you just desire some more because you know precisely how much it would aid you with making decisions. But really, where does this true confidence come from? There are these little things I love to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long-lasting confidence comes from the process of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that almost all people regularly overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and actually knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You actually begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these good habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of true magic. You see, when you really nail the little stuff, the larger things become more practicable. It's when we try to go for the gigantic goal without having the integrity of focusing on the small things that actually set us up for great failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take the time to deeply focus on the feasible measure of your life, and over longer bouts of time start going for bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a gentle step back down and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path to success. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals get discouraged when they try something big in life and fail. In fact , most people will try something 3 times and then give up completely. But if you build some significant momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and over until the day you get it 100% right.
Isn't that a far better way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are incredibly capable of amazing things.
But first, you need to sweat the really small stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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